Saturday, April 25, 2009

Have You Analyzed ME?




Sometimes you can start analyzing a person by just reading their thoughts, beliefs and anything they tend to follow or start in their life. I think I am most vulnerable when I write how I feel and think at the moment those passages were inked. I am raw…my emotions are highly sensitive and at times contradictory. I can be opinionated, very much assured and confident. At times, I can be weak, helpless and clueless. These are emotions that can be fleeting and the essence of what I as a person is bringing in my journey of learning . It is what makes me… ME in the long run. The feelings of the situations I confess about are the water that makes me grow…what I do with it rewards me with maturity and strength to blossom into a well being capable of greater love, forgiveness and understanding.

I would have not have the fortitude to move on sans my writing. It is a part of my emotional journey thru divorce, single parenthood and broken friendships.

This blog is a post of all those heartaches and some victories. My being a parent will remain and new friendships will blossom and be nurtured. There is more to write,to learn and to share. I am happy to teach, to express and to spread the good words, good deeds and good blessings thru my blog. My life’s walks are best journeyed with people who cares and who wants to see me thru all my trials in life…and in return helps them see themselves in my shoes at times. I encourage you to look at those passages where you just don’t hear me but see other people you may know dealing and doing where I am at that moment. It could be you . We are all different but we are the same human with feelings and thoughts that creates our actions and reactions to any given event we are facing.

I encourage you to write your own blog. It’s an online diary of your emotions that your family can read. They will understand you more and may reach out when needed. You friends can take a look at how you are presently doing with your studies, family or lovelife. Blogging is pure. It is the part of the life we are living… full of joys and tears and all in between.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

It's just MONEY !

There is something about the possession of wealth which is not good for the soul, perhaps. It places artificial value upon secondary things. A man losing a million metal tokens will put a revolver to his temple and pull the trigger. But he has lost nothing but money. He has deprived himself of life because misfortune has deprived him of luxuries. –Clarence Budington Kelland, The American Magazine

Thursday, February 19, 2009

False and Urban Legend Stories

You know those forwarded emails with scary messages?
Find it here in snopes.com and learn what is real or not.

http://www.snopes.com/medical/toxins/lipstick.asp

Don't get scared quickly, use your gut feelings and smarts before jumping into a frantic move.
Sometimes it pays to think about it, it's origin and your friends who are as gullible as me(lol).
I am gullible and i admit to believing what other person would say...yet I will think about it then research and ask around afterwards. Just because I have learned that people can be as innocent,ignorant or just plain not knowing like me when it comes to these urban legends.

Let's get smarter!!!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Be brave in changing your life


…and everything will be fresh and renewed energy will be more exhilarating to celebrate.

It is your life and no one can change it deliberately right now but you.

Choose a better path to walk and be brave to be uncomfortable and be loss in the newness of what can be the best thing that you have been waiting and wishing for. There is a prize waiting for you and you have to claim it after the fact.

When something is not working for you, change how you feel about it and how you do things around it. It is a matter of being confident and brave in making decisions. Failing is but what happened only because you forgot to be prepared in the downturn and stopped trying…failings are for those who never learn and never changed what they can.

Believe that there is more to you and your life is more than the redundancy of your boring daily schedules and chores. Life is what you make of it not what others expect you to be,to do and to know. Don’t wait for somebody to change your life but be the somebody you long to be,you long to know and believe. Only you can be that inspiration and the bridge to cross for a much needed self mastery and change.

Be prepared for another chapter. Life is a better read with one interweaving story of love, faith and decisions that changes the course of your own history.

Be Brave and Change!!!